Hi Selfseeker, sorry I didn't reply earlier, to be honest I've just been thinking about so many things and still seem to geon through never ending release. But yes, thanks loads Selfseeker.
Well here's a post from some one of facebook that totally contradicts what you write for me above:
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There is much information, articles, and videos on this topic. During the course of my teachings, writings, education, counseling experiences, this one topic and concept comes up repeatedly. I am asked about this over and over and over again by many different people around the globe. There will be a section on this in my book, but I have also decided to write a short piece about this now to share this now.
How many of you do you know who are seeking their Soul-Mate, Twin-Flame? Do you also fit into this category? There is SO much hype about this everywhere. We are taught to find, seek, dream, wish for, invent etc, this type of relationship. We pay psychics and the likes to try to find this for ourselves or to seek the truths regarding this. We seek manifestation techniques to try to attract this to ourselves. Why is it that we do this, rather than just appreciating what we have, and the relationships that we have? Can we not be satisfied with being alone even outside of an intimate relationship with another?
YES this is truthful, there are the “Twin-Flames” and the “Soul-Mate” types of relationships. Your twin soul or flame is your mirror image - when you were pure energy, you both made up the polarities of the same essence. Male-Female, Masculine-Feminine energy, yin/yang. You were of the same energy until one of you incarnated, manifested into the physical and you were split apart and separated from one another. It makes sense that we long to reunite. When you were born into and came into this earthly plane, they may not have. Without them, at least for many of us, it feels like something is missing, there is an emptiness or what may feel like such, an incompleteness, a yearning for the lost twin because we can not be whole until we merge or unite with them. With them there is unconditional love, understanding, passion, a natural ecstasy, a beauty to be shared like no other, an instant preordained and created harmony and equality. For the record, it is more probable than not, that they are not physically manifested at the same time you are and it may not be possible to find him or her in this life time. If you are waiting to find him or her, you may be waiting a number of lifetimes. They may not be here and did not incarnate at the same time as you did. You are still together and always will be, as you were dually created, whether they be here with you or not in this lifetime they ARE with you always. Helping and assisting you along your path in this lifetime. We take turns incarnating and learning and growing with that which we all need to do. It is often times more significant and beneficial for the other to help from “Home” than to be here together. They ARE a part of YOU and visa versa. Never fear that they are not with you, or that you will never find them. They are with you now and always regardless.
The energetic and vibrational frequencies that we are and put out daily does bring to us the equal matches of such. Male and female form. If we are joyous and finding peace and love within and sharing that with that which comes into our own spheres the equal matches of this is drawn to us and comes to us like a magnet. Have you ever noticed that on a down and negative day when we are not having such positive thoughts and such, that all of a sudden someone very unpleasant comes within your reach? Oppositely, when we put out the other side of such, we attract those who are most loving, caring, giving and sharing. We really do get back what we put out, and our immediate surroundings are a mirror to who WE are and putting out at that time. This is the best indicator to us when we need to make changes in our own lives, behaviors and thought processes.
On Soul-Mate relationships, many think and feel that a soul-mate relationship is a perfect relationship in which there are never any difficulties or challenges, the “Perfect Bliss.” Many become frustrated and let down because they have not been able to find a relationship such as this. A Soul-Mate can offer us problems and complications, just as we do the same for them. We are to “Aide” in one another’s growth process. A soul-mate is someone with whom you can work through life's challenges and difficulties, even when that person may appear to be the source of them. In other words, a soul-mate is an individual who often reflects or lets us encounter our own strengths and weaknesses, they can bring out the best in us, but also the worst, and bring to our attention that which we may need to improve and expand upon for our own betterment.
Soul-Mates come into our lives for a reason. We are put into each others experience to teach one another and to work through what is needed through our experiences together. Once this is completed it just may be that the relationship comes to a preordained end because what was needed has now been completed. There are many different levels to Soul-Mate relationships. There can be those that are very close to that of our “Twin” and it may be an incredible passionate, harmonious, peaceful and glorious relationship. Some Soul-Mates are farther removed, more distant and may be in your life for shorter periods of time or may not be people you become deeply involved with. It could even be someone who you are in constant conflict with and do not even like. All of these are important and put within our paths for a reason. You will know one another by a familiarity, what you see within the others eyes, an instant bond and connection, there is no mistake here, just as everything happens for a reason. These are souls, Kindred-Souls that we know and have experienced and shared with in lifetimes before. Some could have been our brother, sister, mother, father, lover, friend, husband and wife. Souls always know one another. There can be a number of soul-mate relationships that can bring you great joy and passion and much happiness, while again, some are meant to teach us and assist us to grow to our maximum potential. Let’s also not forget that is it common to be able to form a “New” Soul-Mate relationship. We all have many Soul-Mates from past lives, and at one time or another, we formed a bond with these and have gathered many along the way throughout our lifetimes, this lifetime to can also bring us a joyful brand new one. I personally have met many in this lifetime, both male and female.
Typically, at least in spiritual theory, it is only after you have spiritually reached the highest level and have completed all the earthly lessons for the highest elevation, and may choose not to come back into physical again because you have learned everything you set out to learn in this plane, that you and your “Twin Flame” find one another. The two have a massive divine purpose in service of God. This is, as with all things is in God Hands, not ours. We all have reasons that we are here and many things to experience and sometimes, we have to go through difficult learning experiences without the safety of our other half, our equal, at least temporarily until we have gone though our issues and learned what we set out to learn. If they were always with us, we would not be able to complete that which is needed and would not be able to push through all that is placed before us for us to learn and grow. There would be no reason to, as with them we have already found our “Bliss.” It is the hardness, and difficulties in life that teach us many things, tenacity, compassion, grace, love, patience, tolerance, joy, appreciation, gratitude, strength etc. Joy does not teach us this. We cannot learn to be grateful and what joy truly is until we know and realize what it is not.
When we can come to the place of our own cores and center, our very own magical, divine, and mystic place, many and all other things in life become irrelevant. They just are, as life and the universe is constantly moving around us. Giving Self-Love and recognizing our own beauty within, brings the most joy, pleasure, and happiness of all, laced with an over abundance of peace. When we love ourselves, it is almost impossible to ever feel the hurts of the world. With this new growth and understanding, comes the greatest blessing of all. From hence, our world around us changes, we see, view and feel things differently. We can forgive immediately or fail to see a problem at all. Many of the Un-pleasants and Negatives of the world cease to exist. This IS possible for one and all. It IS a gift, and belongs to YOU and ME. Rather than constantly “Seek” go within, ALL that you need awaits your joyful acknowledgement. The most beautiful treasure is YOUR heart and soul, your own essence, YOU complete yourself, no other can. The rest will come on its own accord in whatever way it is meant to come. Let’s give thanks for all the relationships that we have, each one is a gift, we must also be thankful for the thorns, not only the roses. The “Thorns” drive us to excel far beyond our wildest dreams and expectations. Live for today and each new day, allow what comes in the natural flow, and flow “With” the current rather than against it. Acceptance is the key. Embrace and love each and every little thing about firstly YOU, then all and everything else. What is meant to be shall be, there is a much bigger than you and I conducting and sending what is needed whether we can see or feel this or not.
“Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.”
I LOVE YOU…Each and every precious one of you…To BE is to LOVE.
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What do you think guys?
Presonally, I'm really split between both poles now.
Still conviced there is your 'twin flame' out there or not ?
Thanks for being here guys, weather you post or not.
Dan
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